How do you feel about cross country relationships?

Alex: just how would you experience long-distance relationships?

Maria: Perhaps Not that good. I experienced two relationships chances are and each of them finished after me going someplace. Very first time I happened to be in Denmark but while I was there for four months like I think two months after I went home to him and broke up and then came back to the school and just didn’t really care like I lived on a school in another city and. After which the time that is second went traveling and I also missed him a great deal and I also came ultimately back and understood that there is nothing kept. We’d lost every thing while I happened to be away thus I do not, after 30 days, after 2 months, i believe it simply does not work properly for me personally whether it’s certainly not special.

Alex: Yeah, i suppose you are similar to me. I must start to see the individual.

Maria: Exactly.

Alex: nearly, you realize, daily.

Maria: Exactly and you will have conversations online as well as on the telephone however if there isn’t any, I’m not sure, it generally does not need to be much, similar to be close, see one another into the attention .

Alex: It is a difference, yeah. Used to do a when i went home to australia away month.

Maria: come july 1st?

Alex: Yeah, this present summer time and like Skype is not really sufficient. Have you any idea the reason? You can observe the individual, it is possible to speak with them, you are known by you can easily kiss the camera if you like but it is maybe perhaps maybe not.

Maria: If You Like.

Alex: you realize it is not the exact same but that is not to imply I do not think, some individuals may do it.

Maria: we figure whether it’s a really, like in the event that relationship is quite, it is extremely passionate or perhaps you’ve been taking place for the time that is long both of my relationships had been under 12 months i believe. The first one ended up being twelve months plus the one that is second half of a 12 months. Therefore when we’re familiar with remaining together I quickly think you can easily work it down. I am simply too impatient.

Alex: Yeah, i assume under a you haven’t really learned to depend on the other person all the time year.

Maria: Precisely.

Alex: Or.

Maria: Nevertheless going because of the passion and then the passion just slowly fades if you can’t see the person every day or like whenever you want.

Alex: Yeah, consented.

Maria: But it’s your very first relationship right?

Alex: Yes it really is and I also did one thirty days whenever I went house from the individual plus it had been simply.

Maria: And that ended up being the very first time you ever went far from the person?

Alex: Yeah and it also had been simply aah terrible, terrible, terrible, terrible.

Maria: from the the time that is first like traveled while my boyfriend ended up being nevertheless in the home also it ended up being a week and I also ended up being devastated so it is, whether it’s passionate it really is.

Alex: Well used to do xmas away from their website once I went along to Christmas time, used to do Asia for xmas a year ago.

Maria: OK.

Alex: And two months ended up being bad sufficient after which a thirty days and i also had been simply pulling my locks down , did you know? Therefore.

Maria: Yeah, it is hard.

Alex: It, yeah, it definitely is.

Promise Ring??

well fundamentally i recently wish to ask if this coming valentine’s day I should provide my gf of six months a promise ring..we love one another so we’ve currently mentioned wedding in the foreseeable future. Do you guys too think its very very very early for me personally to offer a vow band to her??

Simply want to understand your input about this.


I am nevertheless in discomfort due to the “promise band” my ex provided me with.

what’s the line that defines a vow band from a wedding ring? ang gastos naman makipag-relationship. :glee:

well, to resolve my very own concern, my gurL and I also got a promise band each, and also the explanation because of it ended up being because I will be stepping into an extended distance relationship (LDR). too soon to propose and give consideration to an engagement, the band served being a vow to both of us that people’ll hold on tight to the relationship regardless of the distance barrier. it’s been 5 months since we found myself in the LDR thing and now we’re nevertheless waiting on hold to it.

a vow band, consequently (for me personally), is one thing “more formal” to own one thing (materially) to put up on to your relationship. but I can not see its relevance if you should be actually together, I am talking about, why the requirement to get it when you can finally see each other each day, eh?

well essentially i recently would you like to ask if this valentine that is coming day I should offer my gf of six months a promise ring..we love each other and we also’ve currently discussed wedding as time goes by. Do you guys too think its very very very early for me personally to offer a vow ring to her??

Just want to understand your input with this.

eto tanong ko sayo:

gano mo na katagal kakilala yang taong yan? perhaps you have seen her on her behalf “bad hair times”?

tropa ba kayo? is every thing going smooth on your own relationship? do you really fight pero petty lang naman?

my child provided me with a promise from christmas a year ago. And he was given by me one before he left for the states.

A promise ring unless you are ready to commit in my opinion you dont give someone. as with agree to the point of the alredy comprehended that you’re engaged and getting married.

Ionno things to inform you cept this.

My sis happens to be together with her guy for over 3 yrs now. Wedding is definately as time goes on for both of these. He never gaved her a vow ring. Their reasons are.

“the ring that is first ever would you like to offer her, could be a marriage ring. because a vow band may be fond of anyone. but a marriage band is just directed at usually the one one who you wish to invest your complete real time with, to develop old with. Somebody who ended up being here to you through the great and also the bad”

This seems old fashion, but it is well well well worth hearing. You will want to simply get her one thing else for V-day? You understand. flowers and chocolates constantly do just fine

well fundamentally i recently like to ask if this valentine that is coming day I should provide my gf of six months a promise ring..we love one another and then we’ve already mentioned wedding in the foreseeable future. Do you guys too think its very very early in my situation to provide a vow band to her??